Who are we?

Here is a little info about us and how we got here. We’ve been married over 35 years, so that says something about our ages! We have had ups and downs in our marriage, but in general it’s been a pretty quiet journey through the years. We have two grown children who are out on their own, one married and one single.

I think I was born with the spanko gene and have found it exciting all my life but didn’t share my interest with Lash until we’d been married almost 20 years. We incorporated it into foreplay occasionally and that was where it ended, until January of this year. One weekend, I found a website about Domestic Discipline, followed some links, read all I could and felt a buzz all over! This was what I’d been wanting, but I hadn’t known how to express it.

I showed one of the websites to Lash and left the house to go to the supermarket. I was so nervous about his response I was literally shaking! But, when I returned, he responded with interest that has since developed into enthusiasm. We’ve been gradually refining “our” form of DD ever since.